Can’t handle this

I literally cannot handle the feeling of disappointment and hurt anymore. I can’t handle dating. It hurts too much. What am I supposed to do?!

I’ve had 2 official dates and 2 brief encounters with D in the last 2 weeks. We had our 1st date on Xmas eve other drinks in our local city bars then went back to his and I gave in to naughtiness. I’ve literally never got in with someone so well on a 1st date, so much in common and so much chat. Then we had our 2nd date Boxing Day night and I went to his with alcohol and games and we had more naughtiness and I just felt we were so compatible in every way. We got on, joked, laughed, flirted, had banter, had great sex etc.

So today I’ve suggested a couple of days in the next week to meet and he’s busy so fair enough. He then sent me the following: “can we just see how things go in the week? It would be good to meet again but can we just go with the flow?”

To meet that’s pretty much someone saying they don’t want to date anyone, how would you read into that? He’s literally the perfect guy so it’s understandably hurt me A LOT especially with all my recent emotions and I finally felt he could help me through this and I had a good feeling from the initial meeting with him. I’m so fed up of being the girl that guys are happy to have fun with, why not anything serious? I’m easygoing, fun, caring and have so much to give.

 Advice is needed please!


4 thoughts on “Can’t handle this

  1. Happy Girl says:

    I’m not an expert as far as love is concerned since i’ve never had a boyfriend.. but I wouldn’t jump to conclusion with that text. Maybe he just needs some time to figure out what he really thinks about you, to see if he’s ready to begin a real relationship. Some peole need more time to adjust to a situation than other. Leave him a few days and you’ll see what comes out of it. He says that it would be good to meet again, and you say that the both of you are getting on quite well so i wouldn’t worry too much ๐Ÿ™‚ I might be totally wrong, but let’s not lose hope until we have reason to xx

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    • Thank you for the comment and supportive words. I decided with it being Christmas to keep myself busy and play it cool and I think it’s worked as he’s been more chatty and actually asked me out next weekend yesterday. I’m ill at the moment but as long as I’m better I can’t wait to see him. This is the year to take things as they come and not put pressure on anything. If it’s meant to be it will be. He’s an independent guy and likes time on his own so I’ll respect that. Xx

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      • Happy Girl says:

        He asked you out ? that’s awesome ! I hope it’ll all go well. And like you say, if it’s meant to be it will be.


      • On another date I meant rather than out like in girlfriend terms. We message every day so it does sound good. We shall see what happens and I shall update at some point ๐Ÿ™‚ xx


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